As I’ve mentioned before on the Ramblings, I don’t generally take part in blog tours, as many of the books I read are backlisted or translated or a bit obscure and the like. However, when British Library Publishing asked if I’d like to take part in a tour for their latest releases in the British Library Women Writers series, I was happy to be involved. I think British Library Publishing are doing sterling work with their beautiful imprints for crime fiction, horror and classic sci-fi, and the Women Writers range is a particular joy. Series consultant Simon Thomas of Stuck in a Book is of course a blogging pal, and co-host of our club weeks (which he devised) and I think he’s curated some wonderful titles so far for the series. The book I’m featuring today – “Mamma” by Diana Tutton – has a particular interest for me, as I will explain…
Back in 2012, Simon discovered and raved about Tutton’s novel “Guard Your Daughters“; a number of bloggers (including me!) were inspired to track down copies and read it; and the book was something of a sensation for a while. I loved it (and actually have two old copies somewhere in the house); and more recently it was reprinted by Persephone Books. Tutton only wrote three novels, and “Mamma” was her first, although “Guard Your Daughters” was the book which made it into print first. Her third and final novel, “The Young Ones” was first published in 1959 and is currently out of print. More on her general choice of subject matter later…
“Mamma” was published in 1956, and opens with 41 year-old Joanna Malling arriving at her new home in Tadwych. Widowed at 21 after a short marriage, she’s brought up her young daughter, Libby, single-handed; and before long Joanna finds that Libby is engaged, to Steven Pryde. At 35, Steven is a soldier and quite a lot older than his prospective wife; in fact, he’s obviously a lot closer in age to the woman who will be his mother-in-law. Nevertheless, the marriage goes ahead, despite the husband and mother-in-law not particularly liking or being comfortable with each other. And Joanna thinks that will be that.
However, circumstances (and the forces!) conspire to post Steven to Tadwych and inevitably Joanna’s daughter and son-in-law end up sharing a house with her. As the young couple grapple with the difficulties of married life, trying to understand each other’s needs and temperaments, it seems that in fact Steven has a lot more in common with Joanna than might initially have been thought; and Joanna finds herself struggling with emotions she thought long suppressed . Things are not helped by the fact that her daughter is young, inexperienced and stubborn, bent on moulding her older husband in ways he doesn’t appreciate or want. But any kind of intimacy between the two older characters would be catastrophic – so how with Joanna resolve the clash between loyalty and love?
Well – Tutton really liked to tackle intriguing subjects and there are a *lot* being explored here! There is, of course, the possibility of what would, at the time, have been considered a transgressive relationship. Aside from Joanna’s loyalty to her daughter, it was obviously more acceptable in the 1950s for a man to be 15 years older than his wife than for a wife to be 6 years older than her husband. Even though the latter two would have much more in common, it was still taboo (and probably still is nowadays, to a certain extent – older women being mostly written off as old bags). It’s slightly shocking to see that at 41 Joanna is pretty much considered past it (and at some points thinks that way of herself); but it was ever thus and until attitudes change dramatically will still be the case.
What’s interesting, though, is how subtly Tutton explores this attraction; neither Joanna or Steven are particularly interested in each other to start with. However, as they get to know each other better, they bond over poetry and it’s clear that there is a deep intellectual link developing which cannot exist between Steven and the much younger Libby. It takes a dramatic family event to reveal the truth to them, but even after that there is the fight to suppress their impulses; and a dangerous point where Libby suspects the truth.
Aside from this element, there are a number of side-plots which look at different kinds of relationship. There is Mrs. Holmes, who “does” for Joanna, and has something of a reputation, as well as a number of children who don’t look that alike plus a handsome husband. And Steven’s mother, Mrs. Pryde, is a somewhat bizarre character who attracts speculation about a friendship she has with a young woman. There’s Libby’s best friend, Janet Mortimer, who has all sorts of rational ideas about sex and marriage, plus her ghastly family. It’s fascinating how Tutton uses these supporting characters to explore the types of relationship which can exist; and it’s clear she believes there’s no ‘one size fits all’ solution.
I was intrigued, also, to find out how frank Tutton was in places about matters physical. There are mentions of losing virginity, hints of sex perhaps being not quite as all-consuming as a newly married girl would expect, musings on whether the husband is actually satisfied, and a particularly insensitive (on one character’s part!) discussion of whether sexual frustration makes you go loopy. There’s nothing at all graphic, but I did wonder if this was particularly usual for a novel of the time, and it signaled to me that Tutton was not afraid of tackling difficult subjects. I did perhaps find her working class characters slightly stereotyped, but she was obviously using them to explore the class divide which still existed at the time. Women like Libby and Janet can discuss birth control, taking this into their own hands as best possible (as the Pill would not be in more common use until the 1960s); whereas Mrs. Holmes has presumably less choice in these matters and is turning out children left, right and centre…
As for difficult matters – Tutton may only have written three novels, but each touched on a thorny subject. “Guard Your Daughters” featured a very dysfunctional family, seriously affected by one member with mental health issues and turned out to be quite a dark read in the end. “Mamma” takes on two taboos – an older woman and a younger man, and falling for your son-in-law. “The Young Ones” is apparently about brother-sister incest; so I do wonder if that one will ever make it back into print. Certainly, Tutton was a very interesting novelist!
Anyway, I thoroughly enjoyed reading “Mamma”; Tutton’s writing is excellent, her characterisation quite brilliant and the book was engrossing from start to finish – I couldn’t put it down and ended up staying up far too late to finish it! Diana Tutton’s work has been ignored for too long; “Mamma” is a wonderful and fascinating read and a worthy addition to the Women Writers series; and kudos to British Library Publishing for bringing it back into print!
(Review copy kindly provided by the publisher, for which many thanks! As with all of the British Library Women Writers book, there’s a lot of supporting material in the form of facts about the 1950s, a foreword and an interesting afterword by Simon. Lots of lovely bloggers are taking part in the tours for “Mamma” and also “Tension” by E.M. Delafied, as you can see from the graphic above – do go and check them out!)
Jun 02, 2021 @ 08:27:25
Thi is the second very positive review I’ve read of Mama this week. HeavenAli was also very impressed. Adding it to my list…
Jun 02, 2021 @ 09:42:31
I think Tutton is a very underrated writer, and she really does tackle some ineresting subjects. Definitely recommend this one!
Jun 02, 2021 @ 09:58:28
Lovely review! The first time I read it, it was so different from GYD that I was a bit unsure – but I saw the subtlety on the second time around. The Young Ones is also surprisingly subtle, given its theme, but I still think it would be a tough sell…
Jun 02, 2021 @ 10:03:37
Thanks Simon, and well done for getting this one into the Women Writers series! I love Tutton’s writing, and although it *is* a bit different from GYD, she’s very good in both at leading you in one direction and then twisting things off in another. Very cleverly done. As for The Young Ones, the theme is difficult – but not knowing what she does with it I can’t comment. Agree it’s a hard sell, but I think I would still be interested to see what she does with it…
Jun 02, 2021 @ 11:09:52
Not books on my radar, but they do look very good 🙂
Jun 02, 2021 @ 14:16:57
No, not translated for sure, but they *are* good and very unjustly out of print up until now!
Jun 02, 2021 @ 13:00:08
In Evaristo’s Girl, Woman, Other, one of the stories includes an older woman who seems with little remorse or coscience to start to have sex regularly with her daughter’s husband. I was shocked by the author’s cavalier attitude to this: in the book there is a vein or norm which assumes what gives a person pleasure and feels right is just fine — as long maybe as it’s not violence inflicted on someone. It is an uncomfortable theme: the rivalry between daughter and mother over a man; most of the time what’s presented is before any marriage the daughter winning out based on her youth (I’ve seen that in real life), but the mother can also be preferred for her money (if the man is a cold cad and there are cold cads about still).
Jun 02, 2021 @ 14:16:29
It *is* a difficult theme – Tutton seems to specialise in them – and I don’t think the kind of relationship you mention should be taken casually. It’s frankly the worst kind of betrayal by both the mother and the husband…
Jun 02, 2021 @ 13:11:37
A terrific review! I am on the other half of this tour – I reviewed “Tension” yesterday – and I am so impressed with all the books in this series I have read, with more to come!
Jun 02, 2021 @ 14:15:13
Thank you! They really are such wonderful books and I love how they let us look into how life was in the particular decades. Looking forward to getting to Tension myself! 😀
Jun 02, 2021 @ 13:55:46
I have considered the case where the husband is a lot older than the wife, but I have never considered the case where the mother-in-law is younger than the son-in-law. Especially over time, this would be a very tricky situation.
Jun 02, 2021 @ 14:14:07
I think it can definitely be an issue, not the least because of the difference in outlook and interests between partners with a big age gap. In this situation, the young wife is dreadfully gauche and naive, full of daft ideas fed to her by her friend. There doesn’t seem to be much of a meetings of minds which is the main issue…
Jun 02, 2021 @ 16:08:38
Excellent review, as always. Earlier this week, I also read Ali’s similarly positive response. I already have a copy of this and am very much looking forward to reading it.
Jun 02, 2021 @ 17:26:36
Thank you! Tutton is definitely one to read, and at least two of her books are now in print again!
Jun 02, 2021 @ 17:08:54
Great review, it is interesting how Tutton was drawn to these difficult subjects. She handles them well though if this one is anything to go by. I know The Young Ones is unlikely to find a modern publisher but I would rather like to read it.
Jun 02, 2021 @ 17:26:05
Thanks Ali. Yes, she tackles these problematic ideas well and with tact. Like you, I would like to read The Young Ones though I doubt it would see the light of day.
Jun 02, 2021 @ 18:02:47
I think the kind of attraction that Tutton explores here might be more common than we like to think. It’s alluded to in a few books I’ve read, including Jilly Cooper’s Riders. The age differences are beautifully judged here too. Steven is just not distastefully old for Libby, and the 6 years plus her experience as a mother whilst he must have gone straight from school to war means that there’s a significant gap between Joanna and Steven too. The key moment for me is when Joanna and Steven have that moment in the drawing room and she focuses on his darned socks in his open toed sandels. It’s not a sexy image, but it says a lot about how she misses having someone to care for.
Jun 02, 2021 @ 19:00:44
That’s a really good point about the gap between Joanna and Steven when it comes to experience – her life of motherhood and then widowhood will have made her much more mature. But you’re spot on about her loneliness – those 20 years must have been hard, and they were young years to spend with no-one as a partner.
Jun 03, 2021 @ 00:32:13
I’m not sure that this series is quite up my street but it’s been very interesting to see it develop over there. The British Library is certainly coming up with intriguing series.
Jun 03, 2021 @ 11:37:45
No, not for everyone, but there *are* some really interesting titles in there – and they open quite a fascinating window into past norms and mores!
Jun 03, 2021 @ 08:48:13
Yet another one that I’ll have to look into. My bank account isn’t going to be very happy!
Jun 03, 2021 @ 11:36:36
I’d recommend exploring the Women Writers books – there ar some fascinating titles in there!
Jun 03, 2021 @ 16:08:27
I must get myself a copy of this and GYD, I haven’t read any Tutton. I like the idea of dark and thorny subjects, thank you for a great review as always!
Jun 04, 2021 @ 13:44:45
Thank you! Tutton is excellent imho – so clever at setting up a seemingly straightforward situation and then twisting your perceptions and expectations. I do recommend her.
Jun 05, 2021 @ 11:38:23
I absolutely loved this and thought it might be a sensational or uncomfortable read. It was so subtly done, though, wasn’t it. And you’re right about the range of other possible relationships (and the power of gossip and hegemonic thinking to keep the status quo going) that are showcased in the book. I also loved Joanna’s preference for her garden to social niceties!
Jun 05, 2021 @ 11:51:09
It was extremely well done – very subtle, as you say, and never sensationalist. Such an interesting look at relationships of the time generally – and like you I thought Joanna’s choices were wonderful. Loved the way she did her own thing, which constrasted beautifully with the dreadful Janet and the Mortimers!!
Jun 06, 2021 @ 09:10:32
This sounds like it has quite the cast of characters! It’s very tempting, as all the books in this series are. It’s impressive that she chose such thorny topics too.
Jun 06, 2021 @ 14:11:26
It has, and it makes fascinating reading. She tackles these difficult topics well – highly recommended!
Jun 13, 2021 @ 21:06:52
Isn’t it funny how we persist in thinking that these kinds of situations or predilections are contemporary matters , that they’ve not happened in the past (or, if they did, infrequently) or that women’s feelings were so different decades ago…and we remind ourselves, and then need reminding again, so often. (Me too, obvs, not directing this at you!)
Jun 14, 2021 @ 10:17:39
Yes – that’s why fiction like this is so useful. It really makes it clear that so many emotions and situations are eternal!
Dec 31, 2021 @ 07:01:45